January 15, 2013

DON'T ALLOW OTHERS TO DESTROY YOUR SELF-WORTH BECAUSE OF THE MISTAKES YOU HAVE MADE!

THEY FORGET THAT THEY HAVE A PAST, AND THEY HAVE MADE MISTAKES ALSO!

It's really easy for others to sit back and judge you for the choices and mistakes you have made in your life. Even though you may have changed, and you may have become a totally different person, those judging you may only see you for how you once were and not for who you are now. You may have been trying for years to get these people to see your value, but they just can't see it. Maybe, it's better to say that they choose not to see the person you have become. What those people fail to see is that you are human, and it is okay to make mistakes! How are we supposed to learn and grow if we are never permitted to make a mistake?

There are valuable life lessons to be learned here. One lesson is that no matter how much you change, no matter how much you grow, no matter how much you learn, and no matter how much you try to prove your worth to some, those people will never see you as anymore than the shell of who you used to be. Move on from these individuals.

Those who cannot forgive you for who you once were, and who cannot forget the mistakes you have made need to remember that they too have a past! They too have made mistakes! There is not a single person on this planet who has not made a mistake. Learn not too dwell in the past. Forgive yourself for the mistakes of the past, live for today, and if you have to, walk away from those who cannot let go of who you once were.